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Title: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on September 24, 2011, 04:13:46 PM
Actually she is my family's dog but I love her too. Her name is Sugar and she is a 12 year old chocolate lab. She belonged to my grandfather who died 8 years ago. So after that the family kept her out on some family land (143 acres) with a farm house. She got to run and play almost every day. And me and my Great Dane came out there every Saturday and Sunday morning for 7 years. We would walk through fields and forrest trails  for hours at a time. It was a good stress reliever for me and the dogs had a great time too.

Sugar is a really sweet dog like most labradors tend to be and it makes me sad to think she will be gone soon.

My folks were out of town this weekend so I went by to feed her and play with her. But she wasn't herself. She didn't eat her food from the day before, would hardly move and was in obvious pain. So I took her to the vet and he diagnosed it as lymphoma. He said we would try to treat her with steriods and said it could buy her maybe another 6 good months.

Just wanted to share. I guess maybe I needed to talk about it.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Solar on September 24, 2011, 05:55:10 PM
I'm so sorry Dan.
I'm sure you'll do your best to make her remaining time here as nice as possible. :(
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Solars Toy on September 24, 2011, 08:30:44 PM
I too am sorry Dan.  Make the time special and enjoy her company while you can.  Toy
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Cryptic Bert on September 24, 2011, 09:44:28 PM
I know this doesn't help buy you gave the dog a life it wouldn't otherwise have.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on September 25, 2011, 06:43:22 AM
I think the plan will be to give her steroids as long as they help the symptoms and give her quality of life.

I had to put my Great Dane to sleep last year after a heart attack. It was her second major one and her heart was just too dqmaged. When they don't hqve the prospect of any more good days then putting them to sleep is a kindness because I don't want their lives to just be suffering.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on September 25, 2011, 06:44:08 AM
Thanks for your kind words everyone. I really appreciate it.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Shooterman on September 25, 2011, 07:21:15 AM
Dan, having a Brown myself, I can attest as to their demeanor and intelligence. They are very special. Browns march to a different drummer, from what I can tell, and you become attached to them very quickly.

Unfortunately, at 12 years, the big Pups start to really go down as they age. Sounds like yours has had a great life, and I certainly don't envy what you will face later. been there and done that. God Bless you and the Pup.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: WoodBurner on September 27, 2011, 03:25:47 AM
 Sorry about your friend Dan.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: CubaLibre on September 27, 2011, 05:06:13 AM
As a dog lover, I'm really sorry to hear about this, but I hope you guys can make the best of her remaining time  :(
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on September 28, 2011, 07:05:31 AM
Quick update. Sugar is responding well to the steroids. She is moving around much better. Her appetite is coming back. She seems pain free and even playful again. Not sure how long it will last but as long as we can give her a good quality of life we are going to do what we can. But we have all agreed that we aren't going to let her suffer with no prospect of good days ahead. So once that day comes we will say our goodbyes and end her pain.

But like I said, for now she is doing well.

Thank you for all of your sympathy and kind words. I was just really low when I wrote the original post and needed to share. Thank you, all of you, for helping me with this difficult news.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Solars Toy on September 28, 2011, 06:17:35 PM
Quote from: Dan on September 28, 2011, 07:05:31 AM
Quick update. Sugar is responding well to the steroids. She is moving around much better. Her appetite is coming back. She seems pain free and even playful again. Not sure how long it will last but as long as we can give her a good quality of life we are going to do what we can. But we have all agreed that we aren't going to let her suffer with no prospect of good days ahead. So once that day comes we will say our goodbyes and end her pain.

But like I said, for now she is doing well.

Thank you for all of your sympathy and kind words. I was just really low when I wrote the original post and needed to share. Thank you, all of you, for helping me with this difficult news.

Anytime Dan.... (https://conservativepoliticalforum.com/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FOthers%2Fothers-085.gif&hash=bb4483f65261fe711c094838679bf433f52aebba)
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Jasmine on September 29, 2011, 06:50:10 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your family dog, Dan, but I'm glad she's responding well to the steroids. Years ago, we had a dog that we all loved so much. But he developed cancer in his old age, and he had to be put to sleep. The hardest thing was that we had to schedule an appointment to put him to sleep, and so for the next few days it was so hard for me to even look at him without crying. On the day of the appointment, before my parents took him to the vet, I said goodbye to him and he kept looking at me as if he knew it was goodbye for good. It was so hard to deal with.

May God give you and your family strength and comfort, and bless your beloved pet and make her as comfortable as possible.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on September 30, 2011, 12:52:02 PM
Last year I had to put to sleep my great dane. She was my baby. I got her for my ex but when she left me the dog was sick and she said it was mine. So I kept her and after about a dozen vets we finally figured out what was wrong with her. Her thyroid and adrenal glands had basically shut down and that compromised her immune and digestive systems. We almost had to put her to sleep before she was 2 years old because of it. But once we identified the problem and got her on a hormone replacement regimine and she did really well for a few years. But when she was sick she had a pretty bad heart attack. I had to feed her pedeolyte and baby food for a week and carry her out to go to the bathroom. Eventually she recovered but then a year later she had another massive heart attack and the vet said her heart was so weak that it was filling up with fluids and there was basically nothing he could do for her. So I had a few minutes to say my goodbyes, held her in my arms and looked into her eyes as the vet gave her the shot and her eyes closed for the last time.

Sugar, the dog with lymphoma stayed out at the 143 acres we have that me and my great dane visited every saturday and sunday. I would walk back in those woods for 2-4 hours each day and the dogs would come with me. They would run and play as we went through fields and woods and they would sniff all sorts of cool animal scents and we just had a great time.

So when Sugar passes it won't just be losing her. It will also be losing the last living connection I had to my dog.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on October 17, 2011, 05:48:27 PM
Well Sugar's lymph glands in her throat have swollen to the point where it's affecting her breathing. The end is very soon. Maybe this week. She had a great life but we aren't going to let her suffer.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: CubaLibre on October 18, 2011, 11:39:09 AM
Quote from: Dan on October 17, 2011, 05:48:27 PM
Well Sugar's lymph glands in her throat have swollen to the point where it's affecting her breathing. The end is very soon. Maybe this week. She had a great life but we aren't going to let her suffer.
Really sorry to hear that. Can't imagine what you guys are going through... You have my deepest sympathies.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on October 19, 2011, 12:07:55 PM
We had to put Sugar to sleep yesterday. She has been having good and bad days for the past month or so. If she had a bad day or two then she would always seem to rally.

But last saturday was he last good day. She ate well. Moved OK. Seemed happy and wagged her tail a lot. She barely ate on Sunday. Did not eat on Monday and couldn't even stand on Tuesday. He lymph glands had swollen to the point where she had difficulty breathing. So we did what we said we would do. We made sure she didn't suffer any more than necissary. Once it was clear there weren't any good days left for her then the decision was clear.

She passed peacefully and surrounded by the people who loved her and we burried her in one of her favorite spots.

She was a very good dog and she had a very good life.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Elfie on October 21, 2011, 08:21:57 AM
I am sorry, that is very difficult. We did the same last Feb....  it is not easy. ever.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Dan on October 21, 2011, 08:52:46 AM
Thanks. I put down my great dane last september. She was my dog and I had raised her from a pup. It's hard to lose them, but the good times more than outweigh the bad. We are very lucky if we ever meet a person who gives us the same unconditional love a dog gives.
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Elfie on October 21, 2011, 09:28:33 AM
Very true. I remember your dane.    I waited until I was ready to get another. I'm glad I did..... :)
Title: Re: My dog has lymphoma
Post by: Solars Toy on October 22, 2011, 09:13:39 AM
So sorry Dan.   But as you said she is not suffering.   My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.  Toy