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Title: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:05:36 AM
well...she's having him, I'll just be in the room  :laugh:

Should be a great day. Wish me luck !
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Possum on January 10, 2020, 06:21:30 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:05:36 AM
well...she's having him, I'll just be in the room  :laugh:

Should be a great day. Wish me luck !
:thumbsup: Quick, catch up on sleep now, its your last chance for the next 18 years.  :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 10, 2020, 06:31:14 AM
Quote from: s3779m on January 10, 2020, 06:21:30 AM
:thumbsup: Quick, catch up on sleep now, its your last chance for the next 18 years.  :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Soo true!! It's too we can't bank sleep, I'd gladly sleep for a week and sell it to new parents for a price.
Congrats Joe, hope his critical thought gene develops normally in spite. :wink: :biggrin:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 10, 2020, 06:33:27 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:05:36 AM
well...she's having him, I'll just be in the room  :laugh:

Should be a great day. Wish me luck !

Good luck to your wife and the baby.  I am with s3779m your problems have just started as a dad.   :lol: :lol:  Take time to enjoy them and remember your responsibility.  Welcome to a new world DAD!!   :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:54:58 AM
Thanks guys!

I already didn't sleep last night from the excitement.

*fingers crossed* that this baby isn't cranky and loves sleeping through the night 
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 10, 2020, 07:09:48 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:54:58 AM
Thanks guys!

I already didn't sleep last night from the excitement.

*fingers crossed* that this baby isn't cranky and loves sleeping through the night

LOL  Out of 3 we only had one that loved sleeping through the night after the first week.  The good wife would kick me out of bed to check on him for 2 weeks.   :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 10, 2020, 07:10:42 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:54:58 AM
Thanks guys!

I already didn't sleep last night from the excitement.

*fingers crossed* that this baby isn't cranky and loves sleeping through the night
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's it, keep those standards low. Is this your first?
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 10, 2020, 07:15:36 AM
Quote from: Solar on January 10, 2020, 07:10:42 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's it, keep those standards low. Is this your first?

The world of real reality will hit him in about a month or less. :sneaky:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Possum on January 10, 2020, 07:18:07 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 06:54:58 AM
Thanks guys!

I already didn't sleep last night from the excitement.

*fingers crossed* that this baby isn't cranky and loves sleeping through the night
My first went three years before sleeping thru, three loooong years, the second, on his first night home slept 12 hours and kept it up. the third was in the middle of that but since the other two were older they helped with the nights. We wish you the best. Is it dadsixpack.......joesixpackdad.........joedadsixpack.......sixpackdad...??? 
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 10, 2020, 07:33:21 AM
Quote from: walkstall on January 10, 2020, 07:15:36 AM
The world of real reality will hit him in about a month or less. :sneaky:
Bingo!!! Watch him begin dropping his support for socialism, as he starts realizing his child will suffer the consequences over a loss of Liberty and Freedoms.
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 08:52:10 AM
Quote from: Solar on January 10, 2020, 07:10:42 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's it, keep those standards low. Is this your first?

I played a big role in raising my niece and nephew, but this is my official first.

Thanks to that experience, though, I'm great at tuning out a screaming baby
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 08:53:11 AM
Quote from: s3779m on January 10, 2020, 07:18:07 AM
My first went three years before sleeping thru, three loooong years, the second, on his first night home slept 12 hours and kept it up. the third was in the middle of that but since the other two were older they helped with the nights. We wish you the best. Is it dadsixpack.......joesixpackdad.........joedadsixpack.......sixpackdad...???

:laugh:

I like the sixpackdad name...I might have to run it that
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Possum on January 10, 2020, 09:24:01 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 08:52:10 AM
I played a big role in raising my niece and nephew, but this is my official first.

Thanks to that experience, though, I'm great at tuning out a screaming baby
Great training for their teenage years. :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Possum on January 10, 2020, 03:10:39 PM
Well????? Is he here???
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 05:09:55 PM
Quote from: s3779m on January 10, 2020, 03:10:39 PM
Well????? Is he here???

Still waiting...they said we might have 12 hours left  :blink:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 10, 2020, 05:55:12 PM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 10, 2020, 05:09:55 PM
Still waiting...they said we might have 12 hours left  :blink:
WE? You poor wife... :blink:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 04:32:43 AM
Quote from: Solar on January 10, 2020, 05:55:12 PM
WE? You poor wife... :blink:

Shit just got real!

The contractions are here! :cursing:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 04:42:33 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 04:32:43 AM
Shit just got real!

The contractions are here! :cursing:



Welcome to the real world.  Now will you use a diaper service or Pampers?   Remember the environment  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 05:57:41 AM
Quote from: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 04:42:33 AM


Welcome to the real world.  Now will you use a diaper service or Pampers?   Remember the environment  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Diaper service? Pampers? We're using cloth, my friend ...

Taking it back to the 1600s
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 06:13:20 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 05:57:41 AM
Diaper service? Pampers? We're using cloth, my friend ...

Taking it back to the 1600s

The only way to go.  You don't need to go all the way back to 1600s.  They were using cloth in the 1940s.  :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 06:40:30 AM
Is there a baby yet...  Hope your wife is doing ok.   And you are right this is where it gets real...  :ohmy: Toy
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 07:48:24 AM
Quote from: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 06:40:30 AM
Is there a baby yet...  Hope your wife is doing ok.   And you are right this is where it gets real...  :ohmy: Toy

We're at 9cm dilated!!

Coming soon
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:08:48 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 07:48:24 AM
We're at 9cm dilated!!

Coming soon

Smh. I keep saying"we" as if I'm the one in pain  :rolleyes:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 08:09:59 AM
Lol... We???  If I remember correctly I did all the work during delivery.   :rolleyes: :laugh:  Toy
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 11, 2020, 08:12:25 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:08:48 AM
Smh. I keep saying"we" as if I'm the one in pain  :rolleyes:
Yeah, I was just laughing with Toy over that comment.
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 08:18:37 AM
Quote from: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 08:09:59 AM
Lol... We???  If I remember correctly I did all the work during delivery.   :rolleyes: :laugh:  Toy


So how much was the Doctor and Hospital cost?  :wink:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:40:56 AM
Quote from: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 08:18:37 AM

So how much was the Doctor and Hospital cost?  :wink:

Probably about $2000 in deductibles and $1800 in premiums.

I dunno what other out of pocket stuff might come up, if any
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 11, 2020, 08:46:45 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:40:56 AM
Probably about $2000 in deductibles and $1800 in premiums.

I dunno what other out of pocket stuff might come up, if any
That's not bad. But hospital costs aside, get ready to be broke for the next two decades. :biggrin:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 08:53:15 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:40:56 AM
Probably about $2000 in deductibles and $1800 in premiums.

I dunno what other out of pocket stuff might come up, if any

My first one was 4000$ with no med insurance.  She now 54 years old. 
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:56:02 AM
Quote from: Solar on January 11, 2020, 08:46:45 AM
That's not bad. But hospital costs aside, get ready to be broke for the next two decades. :biggrin:

:laugh: :laugh:

We've talked about this...

I've vowed not to splurge this kid with gifts and toys. It's a waste. He needs to take his butt outside and go play in dirt like we used to


Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 09:00:16 AM
My almost 3 year old grandson has never watched tv, a movie, played on a computer or tablet.  He gets to watch the 1 minute video of Grandpa Solar on the bulldozer but that is it. 
He plays outside a lot and my daughter engages him to do things (cooking with her, building things, painting, playing music...) 

Toy
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 09:04:42 AM
Quote from: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 09:00:16 AM
My almost 3 year old grandson has never watched tv, a movie, played on a computer or tablet.  He gets to watch the 1 minute video of Grandpa Solar on the bulldozer but that is it. 
He plays outside a lot and my daughter engages him to do things (cooking with her, building things, painting, playing music...) 

Toy

Beautiful!

That's our goal too.

Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 09:09:42 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:56:02 AM
:laugh: :laugh:

We've talked about this...

I've vowed not to splurge this kid with gifts and toys. It's a waste. He needs to take his butt outside and go play in dirt like we used to

Our great grandkid enjoy coming over from the big city of Seattle and play in the dirt or snow on our farm.   As I tell my grandkids they will wash.  :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 11, 2020, 09:20:53 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 09:04:42 AM
Beautiful!

That's our goal too.

My daughter has her Masters in Early Childhood Development...teaches a couple classes a semester at a local Junior college.  The biggest thing she found was to be upfront with others about her choices for him.  The kid was almost 2 before he had any sweets.  (A tough one for the Grandmas.)

We don't always see eye to eye but I respect what she is doing.  Toy
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 11, 2020, 10:38:03 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 08:56:02 AM
:laugh: :laugh:

We've talked about this...

I've vowed not to splurge this kid with gifts and toys. It's a waste. He needs to take his butt outside and go play in dirt like we used to
:lol: :lol: :lol:
I wasn't talking about fluff, I meant the basics, time consumed, doctor visits, FOOD, clothes, assuming you're going to clothe him. :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 01:50:34 PM
Quote from: Solar on January 11, 2020, 10:38:03 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol:
I wasn't talking about fluff, I meant the basics, time consumed, doctor visits, FOOD, clothes, assuming you're going to clothe him. :lol:

Lol. We'll. I've gotn2 great friends with 6 month olds. So the plan is hand-me-downs for his entire childhood :laugh:


Also!!!

7lbs 13 oz!!

He's here!
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Possum on January 11, 2020, 02:08:23 PM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 01:50:34 PM
Lol. We'll. I've gotn2 great friends with 6 month olds. So the plan is hand-me-downs for his entire childhood :laugh:


Also!!!

7lbs 13 oz!!

He's here!
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:   How mom?
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 02:14:10 PM
Quote from: s3779m on January 11, 2020, 02:08:23 PM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:   How mom?

She's very good. Thanks for asking.

She already ate (and so did he!) and we're soon going to get moved to our official hospital room
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 11, 2020, 03:20:02 PM
Quote from: s3779m on January 11, 2020, 02:08:23 PM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:   How mom?
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Congrats Joe!!! :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: walkstall on January 11, 2020, 03:22:22 PM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 02:14:10 PM
She's very good. Thanks for asking.

She already ate (and so did he!) and we're soon going to get moved to our official hospital room

Now go out and get Mom some flowers.  Don't be chep!   :lol:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: supsalemgr on January 12, 2020, 04:25:00 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 11, 2020, 01:50:34 PM
Lol. We'll. I've gotn2 great friends with 6 month olds. So the plan is hand-me-downs for his entire childhood :laugh:


Also!!!

7lbs 13 oz!!

He's here!

Congratulations!
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 12, 2020, 05:48:04 AM
Congratulations!   Toy   :biggrin: :biggrin:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 10:33:16 AM
The hospital billing department just paid us a visit  :bored: :blink:

It's everything I said before plus 20% of the total expenses for the hospital stay.

They're gonna mail it to us
:unsure:


Fingers crossed that it's not too much :wink:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 12, 2020, 10:39:05 AM
Well, did you get much sleep last night? :biggrin:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 10:55:18 AM
Quote from: Solar on January 12, 2020, 10:39:05 AM
Well, did you get much sleep last night? :biggrin:

Lol. I actually slept pretty well besides almost freezing to death in this place.

But boy is he cranky today.  Crying like a maniac for boob food.

The Mrs. is very sore. He's got a healthy appetite
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 12, 2020, 11:11:44 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 10:55:18 AM
Lol. I actually slept pretty well besides almost freezing to death in this place.

But boy is he cranky today.  Crying like a maniac for boob food.

The Mrs. is very sore. He's got a healthy appetite

Probably TMI for this but tell the Mrs. to nurse through the discomfort - it gets easier.  Also hopefully she has read up on things to watch out for.  Warm/hot compresses will help if she gets engorged...  Toy
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 12, 2020, 11:16:31 AM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 10:55:18 AM
Lol. I actually slept pretty well besides almost freezing to death in this place.

But boy is he cranky today.  Crying like a maniac for boob food.

The Mrs. is very sore. He's got a healthy appetite
You failed on prep son. :biggrin:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 01:32:19 PM
Quote from: Solar on January 12, 2020, 11:16:31 AM
You failed on prep son. :biggrin:

:laugh:

Her and I had that discussion earlier
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 01:33:38 PM
Quote from: Solars Toy on January 12, 2020, 11:11:44 AM
Probably TMI for this but tell the Mrs. to nurse through the discomfort - it gets easier.  Also hopefully she has read up on things to watch out for.  Warm/hot compresses will help if she gets engorged...  Toy

Thanks. The nurse advised the same thing and she has been a trooper.

I'm impressed cause Lord knows I can't even handle her popping a pimple on me. Lol. Getting a nipple chewed on can't be fun
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solars Toy on January 12, 2020, 01:54:13 PM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 01:33:38 PM
Thanks. The nurse advised the same thing and she has been a trooper.

I'm impressed cause Lord knows I can't even handle her popping a pimple on me. Lol. Getting a nipple chewed on can't be fun

It gets easier...until they get teeth....  :scared: :scared:
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: Solar on January 12, 2020, 02:07:27 PM
Quote from: joesixpack on January 12, 2020, 01:32:19 PM
:laugh:

Her and I had that discussion earlier
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Son, you're going to have to share...
Title: Re: I'm having my first child today
Post by: joesixpack on May 22, 2020, 12:41:31 PM
Update:

this is going swimmingly. baby barely cries at all...threw himself off the couch yesterday and didn't shed a tear. Mom went nuts, though. It's his first tumble.

Thanks to Covid she's been home a lot even after Maternity Leave.

:laugh: :confused: :lol: she's still getting random hospital bills here and there, though