I have recently committed an incredibly insignificant amount of vandalism due to peer pressure. I have been losing my mind from the guilt. I know what I did was wrong but I'm too ashamed to open up to anyone about it. I realize this isn't really what this forum is for but I have no where else to turn, what should I do?
what kind of damage did you to, and to whom?
I don't really know why I'm reacting this way to something so unimportant, but several people were involved in writing unsavory comments on a wall of little significance. I feel like an idiot for mentioning this because of how stupid it is
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 10:37:09 AM
I don't really know why I'm reacting this way to something so unimportant, but several people were involved in writing unsavory comments on a wall of little significance. I feel like an idiot for mentioning this because of how stupid it is
I think there are a lot of contingencies. Who was it targeted to? What was it? And where was it posted. Dependent on these, it could fall into a serious crime. They just busted some idiot up at Yale a month ago for anti-sematic comments. If it were something along those lines, you should probably think of saying something for the sake of your own sanity.
Yeah I think I will, thanks
I agree.
But, if it is something trivial, somewhere you can easily correct it, I suggest contacting the owner and apologizing and then, offer to fix it.
But if it is somewhere uneasy to rectify, or if the content is morally distasteful, I suggest you see if you can convince others to go with you to talk to the ones you vandalized.
IMHO, no one can be forgiven, nor should they be, unless an honest attempt at confession, repentance and restitution is at least offered.
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 10:23:24 AM
I have recently committed an incredibly insignificant amount of vandalism due to peer pressure. I have been losing my mind from the guilt. I know what I did was wrong but I'm too ashamed to open up to anyone about it. I realize this isn't really what this forum is for but I have no where else to turn, what should I do?
Is this a joke? Are you pulling our legs?
Be more specific about your issue. I feel as if some punchline is only a short time away.
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 10:37:09 AM
I don't really know why I'm reacting this way to something so unimportant, but several people were involved in writing unsavory comments on a wall of little significance. I feel like an idiot for mentioning this because of how stupid it is
Go repair the damage and move on. Either paint over it or pay the property owner. Make good on it.
Nvm its not a big deal
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 11:24:59 AM
Nvm its not a big deal
Um, I think it is more of a big deal, than you let on. You simple cannot be vague, and expect people to be able to help. I take it that you are young, at least from my vantage point. Mature people are less concerned with "acceptance" and more concerned with their own Character and Conscience.
This bothered you enough to come to virtual strangers and confess your wrongdoing, so it probably is weighing heavy on your soul. DO yourself a favor, and address it now, and then, put it to rest. Moral Peace and Security will surely come, if you want it to, and if you let it.
But, ain't nuttin' to me, so I've spent my 2 cents.
Quote from: tiny1 on November 04, 2019, 11:31:07 AM
Um, I think it is more of a big deal, than you let on. You simple cannot be vague, and expect people to be able to help. I take it that you are young, at least from my vantage point. Mature people are less concerned with "acceptance" and more concerned with their own Character and Conscience.
This bothered you enough to come to virtual strangers and confess your wrongdoing, so it probably is weighing heavy on your soul. DO yourself a favor, and address it now, and then, put it to rest. Moral Peace and Security will surely come, if you want it to, and if you let it.
But, ain't nuttin' to me, so I've spent my 2 cents.
I agree. His youth overtook his older good sense. This is known as maturing and making good on the damage is the best path to relieving ones conscience as well as recompense to the party harmed.
As an old fart, CF84, take my advice and that of others, you won't regret making good on what you have done.
In truth, it may not have been all that bad, but it was bad enough to bother you. So retain your moral compass and take the Right path. You'll be glad you did.
I agree with Solar. Make it good and apologize and/or whatever needs to be done. That act is for you! As embarrassing and costly as it might be, the guilt will be gone.
I will relate a recent experience I had. I had gone to Sam's Club. When I got home i realized I had inadvertently not scanned a $15.98 item. I could have easily just let it go, but I knew it weigh on me. At my age I don't need that. So, the next day I drove the 10 miles back to the Sam's and told the folks. I paid for the item and lady thanked me for my honesty. Those nice words made my day.
Just do it.
Quote from: Kentucky_Conservative on November 04, 2019, 11:02:18 AM
Is this a joke? Are you pulling our legs?
Be more specific about your issue. I feel as if some punchline is only a short time away.
It better be good.
Quote from: tiny1 on November 04, 2019, 10:25:34 AM
what kind of damage did you to, and to whom?
Yeah, I'd have to know this first....
Quote from: taxed on November 04, 2019, 02:07:59 PM
Yeah, I'd have to know this first....
Yep, and the fellow seems reluctant to give that info. Maybe we didn't react as expected. :confused:
Quote from: tiny1 on November 04, 2019, 02:11:44 PM
Yep, and the fellow seems reluctant to give that info. Maybe we didn't react as expected. :confused:
It's a little troubling.... I'd also have to know his age. Is he a teen-ager who thought something would be funny without thinking, or is this a 55 year old with kids who decided to deface property? Either way, if he didn't hurt anyone, I think it's possible to unravel or make right, assuming he learned from it.
I've already rectified the incident and feel much better
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 08:33:36 PM
I've already rectified the incident and feel much better
That's good. Just make sure to burn the entire body and don't use too much bleach...
Already on it, good sir
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 09:06:37 PM
Already on it, good sir
Excellent. Also, check the ceiling for blood spatter... when you're chopping up a body, you'd be surprised how much ends up on the ceiling...
Oh man I almost forgot
Given that this is a conservative forum, I am guessing that your vandalism amounted to something as insignificant as removing the political campaign lawn signs of a liberal candidate at the urging of your peers who all hate Trump for no discernible reason. You may have done it for acceptance, and then realized that this is BELOW a true conservative.
How'd I do? :bored:
Quote from: taxed on November 04, 2019, 09:17:51 PM
Excellent. Also, check the ceiling for blood spatter... when you're chopping up a body, you'd be surprised how much ends up on the ceiling...
Oh man, sooo true! Some call it a rookie mistake, but I assure you, without a checklist? Soooo many times I've had to burn the car because of DNA over creep.
It gets expensive buying cars you can depend on, while keeping costs down for the client.
I'm working on a new disposal system involving tarps, industrial grade drones and the Mariana trench. At least I'll save on gas and transportation costs. Boat rental prices are high now that the economy is booming under Trump, not to mention scarce availability. Oh, and that damned Wall...
It was sooo much easier under the Marxist, Hillary paid well, the Fed turned a blind eye, everyone was acting like communism was here to stay and I had steady work due to all the corruption, Epstein kept us equally as busy, till Hillary and that cement company incident, then slabbing corpses became costly.
If my drone disposal plan doesn't pan out I'll probably retire. That's the problem with this industry, you never recoup your costs in the end, but then, it's not like you have a brick and mortar storefront to sell.
I can't even sell the name, "WE Stab Em and Slab Em, You Sleep Better".
Quote from: Solar on November 05, 2019, 05:48:47 AM
I can't even sell the name, "WE Stab Em and Slab Em, You Sleep Better".
How about
Nabem, Stabem & Slabem ?
I like how this turned out
:thumbsup: :lol: :thumbsup: :lol:
Quote from: CrowderFan84 on November 04, 2019, 10:23:24 AM
I have recently committed an incredibly insignificant amount of vandalism due to peer pressure. I have been losing my mind from the guilt. I know what I did was wrong but I'm too ashamed to open up to anyone about it. I realize this isn't really what this forum is for but I have no where else to turn, what should I do?
My advice is just move on and don't do it again.
I don't know what you did; I don't want to know.
But these days you can get in very significant trouble way out of proportion to the offense.
For instance, if you spraypainted "X MUST DIE !" it would matter a lot who X is.
The public outrage could vary all over the board depending if "X" were Republicans, White People, or Muslims.
And if you spray painted a Swastika, just give up ever running for office.
So just shut up.
Quote from: Solar on November 05, 2019, 05:48:47 AM
Oh man, sooo true! Some call it a rookie mistake, but I assure you, without a checklist? Soooo many times I've had to burn the car because of DNA over creep.
It gets expensive buying cars you can depend on, while keeping costs down for the client.
I'm working on a new disposal system involving tarps, industrial grade drones and the Mariana trench. At least I'll save on gas and transportation costs. Boat rental prices are high now that the economy is booming under Trump, not to mention scarce availability. Oh, and that damned Wall...
It was sooo much easier under the Marxist, Hillary paid well, the Fed turned a blind eye, everyone was acting like communism was here to stay and I had steady work due to all the corruption, Epstein kept us equally as busy, till Hillary and that cement company incident, then slabbing corpses became costly.
If my drone disposal plan doesn't pan out I'll probably retire. That's the problem with this industry, you never recoup your costs in the end, but then, it's not like you have a brick and mortar storefront to sell.
I can't even sell the name, "WE Stab Em and Slab Em, You Sleep Better".
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote from: taxed on November 09, 2019, 08:16:05 PM
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
This is what happens when I wake up. My creative side is in control because I'm still in dream state. :blink: